Spirituality is not all about communing with holy beings, or having the perfect guru or teacher. It is about seeking deep connections with reality and making for a better world, for yourself and all around you.
Regardless of the belief we advertise most of us have the same needs. We eat, sleep, have friends, and many of us have some kind of job. Put all of these together and we have more than enough challenge in life.
We would like to hear about how you cope and bring a lot of the ideas we explore here into your life. And there is the added bonus of all of us getting to know each other as people with all of our foibles, desires (don't deny that you have those!) and all the other interesting snippets of daily life.
The word wisdom to me mean understanding without doubt. Excepting by trust and faith. There seems to be a (something) to that action. I trust my feeling that I now fully understand but didn't before. Trust and faith are also new words for me. I see and sense people differently lately. Where I got this I don't know. I have a idea but it's only a idea. I also sense I have changed since I am aware of my seventieth birthday in March.
I am not the person I was last year. There seems to be something different about me lately. I like it but am not sure about it yet. There's a new spring in my step that use to not be there. I have some out there thoughts which I am a little nervous about talking about right yet. It would stand to reason I have to except this change for good because it looks and feels that way.
Thoughts please. pljames
Hari Menon
Dear PLJ,
My father is 92 years old , has a fantastic memory and absolutely no ailments , does everything on his own, is absolutely cheery and has tremendous reserves of spirit . Wakes up at 4:00 or 4:30 AM every day never later even if a bit under the weather , Goes to sleep by 8:00 PM (this is a recent development ) Otherwise never later than 9 to 9:30 at night . Why I write this is you have to understand something very clearly (as for me I am 50 years myself ) . If you lead a regulated life style and in the process have been leading a fairly decent life of moderation , there will be a sense of well being as you become older - not a sense of weakness . Faith and equivalent practices (nothing intensive - but leisurely done ) also confer a very happy life , the mind becomes cheerful and you can take it as a part of Dying , You enjoy dying .
god has given every person the ability to know the very changes in his mind and spirit . you are really lucky to be experiencing what you are at your age , there will be millions in this world who have everything on earth and yet would not probably be enjoying in mind and spirit what you feel (the lightness in steps, a feeling of going up,a soft effortlessness)
But these things do not come just to anyone , it only comes to people who have lived life in moderation and have live life maybe not as a wise man but as individuals with some practice of faith or other such stuff , but because of the intent being known by god , the rewards are there in old age , one lives dignified and happily , loses interest in the world and soon wisdom and yoga is upon him without any pain . You are ideally located now to really listen to your self amd monitor every single thing in your body . My father precisely yells me of the effect of different food on his mind and body and way of thinking , he eats what is agreeable to him , and has just a cup of hot milk at night or porridge as he says . I am not saying this by way of advice - I respect any person who has lived even One hour more than me in this miserable world .
My fathe sits happily in meditation , and like a small child or a cat wanders into naps and wakes up, I s happy if we sit by his side and we talk , is not unhappy if we do not . my mother passed away last year - for myself and my father it was such an ennobling and intensely spiritual experience , words cannot describe some things - and so it should be also woth you - You mentioned that you are 70 it is very young , my father is 92 he has friends who are closing in on 100 and are older than him . I think that I have lost more friends than him at my age , at times I am ashamed when I think of it - I envy you - You are so ideally situated in life - you have nothing to run after not even knowledge , just let everything come to you
Of course there may be problems if you are living in places where there are an surfeit of physical activity in the open -
this feelings of well being might get you gravitating to thoughts of youth and sex (I am being frank ) - much like those who take up Yoga and start to get some well being and then immediately have a surfeit of mojo all wrongly attributed to kundalini !!!- any man who starts a regulated life style will find that well being confers a sense of virility (also ladies) but it is this unseen creative energy that has to be dissipated into the spirit . It is god itself . It is not something from any organ in the body - it is from the surrounding space and it can literally lift a person physically and transport him .
Hope I have been helpful .You are quite young - the way I look at it (compared to my father ) . You should not need any knowledge anymore - just look very detached on the memories of the last 70 Years it will be revealing - the world is not required - your memories will give you whatever knowledge you require . I am not advocating anything you have to read this in the backdrop of the culture that I was born in . Just writing fearlessly at the cost of being misunderstood that is all.
Nov 21, 2012